Watch the Men You Choose!

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Occasionally, Black Men are stereotyped as “All black men cheat”! “Lacking the maturity to invest the time, commitment, and energy to work through core issues within their relationship is why men cheat (30 Reasons why men cheat).” Men are often tended to switch up and find another love or feeling for someone else when things don’t go right. Static shows men of color have higher cheating rates than others. Black men are looked like negative people because of the thoughts and actions they make during relationships. Through these causes, they cause females more problems, hurt, and pain which makes them not want to deal with men. Many black men tend to be sneaky and things to hide from partners to accomplish this mission. The All-Black Men cheat stereotype shows the responsibility black men take when in relationships.

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This scarce stereotype causes black males not to know how to treat a girl or not play with females’ feelings or hurt them. Being in relationships and having a man cheating makes it difficult for females to trust and will make problems in future associations. In the TikTok, DO ALL MEN CHEAT, the author states “A lot of girls who are single will be like all men cheat, I’m staying single forever.” She emphasizes how females are going through things in past relationships which makes it hard for females to trust other men because they are going through the same thing over and over. With a grown mindset females think threw situations more than males, which tends to have us caring and falling in love with one person more. Most black men don’t tend to think of how hurting women make them feel and the position it puts them in. All black men should focus on their future rather than putting females threw the worse and bringing them down.

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            Men typically know the Stereotype All Black Men cheat rumors around, so they fight for this cause to try to prove their point is not true. As females have had many problems with black men themselves everyone finds it true and tries to distance themselves from these black men. As being hurt and fall in love with men, females then tend to feel they cannot live without these men which makes it hard for them to let go of these problems.

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            Some men put the reason out that it is the females’ fault that they cheat on their partners. This fact could be prevented in many ways. Before bringing the situation this far males could leave the relationship before causing hurt to the female. Males believe in the myth to have h*** and thinking it looks good. Men will have feelings for one female and the fact that they see another female treating him well or doing something this female doesn’t do starts entertaining it.

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            While a few may agree that all black men cheat some think all men don’t and if they do there are reasons why. As all these reasons could be prevented. “There are me who genuinely want to be faithful and are faithful. But then some men do it for whatever reason. Because of their ego, they want some quick sex, a relationship toxic. I don’t know. Some dudes entertain women here and there. Some dudes are just too nice. Some may like the attention,” Elton states in Do All Men Cheat? An honest conversation about the multifaceted act of cheating. While I disagree with this, all men at some point in time have cheated and done a female wrong, whether they learned from it or not. All black men are responsible for their actions and know what they do every minute, hour, and day they are in these relationships.

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    Men are tired of the All-Black men cheat stereotype. This makes black men feel like they do not have any worth here in the world. Some men do not feel like they can even get opportunities with women because females are scared to love or trust these black men. Black men try to stand up and take responsibility for making the black men stereotype seem false.
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Reflection

        My Argumentative essay on stereotypes was a bit rushed. I took forever on my essay and didn’t have any motivation to do the essay. The paper was due November 6th, but I did not turn it n till November 10th. Overall, after finishing it, I felt like I completed a major step in life. After all, if I felt how I did with my other essays, I could have got it done and out of the way.

With the semester coming to an end, I will still come to Professor Seal to get any help I need and I’m sure she will be there to help. Within this essay, professor seal gave many tools and research to complete the essay. Professor seal goes overboard out of her time to help us, students, get things done. This argumentative essay taught him how making a point is important and how to also research the other side of the argument. This will help me in the long run because I will know how to write and what are the main points of writing an argumentative essay.

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